Because I said so

I hate to hear people say they regret things. I don't regret a single thing. Everything that I have been through, be them good or bad has helped me become the woman I am today. Believe it or not the bad may very well have overpowered the good in some cases because you learn from your mistakes. Everyone needs to fall so that we all know just how cold the floor is. A stumble may prevent a fall but a fall prevents you from taking a second trip down that wet and slippery isle again. You should have obeyed the caution sign but you had to take that walk, now you limping back. Yo' bad. Bet you won't do it again. Mistakes are a must.

You do know that there is a such thing as respectfully cheating, right? Rhetorical. I'm telling you.  Lets be clear, I am in no way condoning infidelity, but if you are in such a predicament please make your best formulated judgement in deciding your future. Is your "partner" being flat out messy, inconsiderate and selfish or if he is respectfully cheating? Does he stay out all night? Has he been walking around the house like a room mate? Do his other women call your phone talking shit? Have you found a pair of underwear that were clearly not yours? Is he taking her to Vegas while you're swiping your bus card? Do you have an STD? No to all of the above? Okay. So if you love him, hang in there dollface, he has potential. There is a light at the end of the tunnel. He'll get tired of the tramps, lets just hope you don't get tired of them before he does. Some men turn random quickies into full blown affairs. Other men just call a one night stand exact