Five Reasons Why Men Cheat

Howdy folks, This is of course my opinion, no historical fact although I did take a survey amongst my male and female cousins. Thank you all for your help... please enjoy, converse and feel free to comment.

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5. He's just not that into you
Have you ever stopped to think that maybe he just settled for you because your boobs were bigger than the girl beside you or you were just so persistent he wifed you before you became his stalker? Come on girls, you give these guys too much credit. He so does not love the thought of you like we girls dream of. If he did he would never be too far, especially not far enough to cheat.

4. You were not available
We as women have to take a little responsibility. If your man calls in need and you neglect to honor his request one night, what makes you think he's not going to get it somewhere else. Think about ladies, every single one of us have said to ourselves, to our girls, to a man we want "I can do what she won't do," so which woman are you? The can do or the won't do? Be available!

3. Because you Cheated
All men were boys at one point and you know that boys like competition. If you have ever beat a male age five through 18 then you know from experience that they will not take a "L" and let you just have the upper hand. If you beat them today, they will try and try until they finally succeed in beating you tomorrow. So cheat now and you better bet your bottom dollar that he'll cheat later. And when you least expect it... (smh) pay back's a mother.

2. He's not getting enough attention at home
You have to be his number one girl... even when you're number two. Make him think, feel and know that you care because when there is doubt there is wonder, where there is wonder there is a will and where there is a will there is a way. Nip that in the bud early and be there. Spend your free time with him and not with your single girlfriends. Call him while you're at work, whisper so he has the feeling that you're sneaking on the phone, risking your job just to say hello to him (even if you're not). Text him while you're at the nail shop to let him know that you're thinking about him and wanted to say hello before you got your nails done and could not send a text until they were finished drying. He will see the severity of the case and adore your time and attention.

1. He thinks he's missing out
We know how we are in the beauty shop, right? Just think about a man in a barber shop. All there is to talk about are women, sports, women, cars and women. Know that if he is the least bit attractive, the women will be a-lookin' and he will be a-cheesin'. So show him that you drop like it's hot, just like the girls at the strip club. Show him that you can cook a thanksgiving dinner on Tuesday just because he asked, just like his granny. Show him that you care about his kids just as you do your own, just as his baby momma does. Once he knows that you obtain the skills necessary for everyday living, he will want to live each day with you and only you because there is nothing to miss, you will indeed have it all.

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Now, I am sorry for the women who thought this would be a me against men article because it is not. My Father taught me well and I would like to think that I am a tom boy, I know what men like and I do my best to please them... emphasis on them lol. This is more a me against women article, we have to do more, we have to earn our men and know how to keep them before we let another woman do what we have always known how to do but never did. I can talk and talk about it but I would rather you do it... what would you like to comment on, add to or argue against?