Waiting for Mr. Perfect


I've came to the conclusion that this is as good as it gets.

I know lots of women who are waiting on this picture perfect man who will sweep them off of their feet and do everything they have ever dreamed a man to do. I unfortunetly am far from that type of woman.

I have really lived an interesting life for a 20 something... but I know I still have a lot to see. I have plenty of places to travel to, a few more foods to eat and whole lotta people to meet. But what I believe will stay the same, are my men.

I have this strong feeling that I will definitely marry or spend a significant amount of my adult life with someone I have already met. I don't know too many women that feel this way, from my knowledge they are all searching for that perfect man. But I have faced reality and I see that the time that I have put into building all of my exe's into "my perfect man" will pay off because they have had time to think and mold themselves into the men they need to be to get me.

I have done a lot of training, put a whole lotta hard laborious hours into making all of my men the man for me. I just can't wait to get to the end where I make one of the old men my new man.

Comments

Anonymous said…
If your really a Princess I'll marry you lol...
August 31, 2009 at 10:42 AM
Because I Said So said…
ok anonymous, send my ring
August 31, 2009 at 6:32 PM
Anonymous said…
I'll meet you at red lobster i'll be at the table with all the roses lol...be there in less then 10mins
September 4, 2009 at 10:45 AM
J Soul Da Genius said…
So you train guys to get you? That's the funniest ish I've ever heard.
September 9, 2009 at 6:53 AM
Because I Said So said…
No Sir, I train guys to be "perfect" for me.
September 9, 2009 at 3:24 PM
Don said…
tripping out on the anon's comment. but u do have that effect.
October 25, 2009 at 4:16 PM
Because I Said So said…
yea Don I'm kind of a big deal lol
October 25, 2009 at 10:07 PM
Don said…
I most definitely agree.
November 16, 2009 at 8:25 AM
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