Happiness Defined

How is your happiness defined?

Happiness to me is seeing my baby brother with his nappy head and buck teeth, hearing his outrageous chuckle and his elongated stories about the bad little baybay kids at his school.
Happiness to me is a peaceful day without arguing with my ex boyfriend about things that are now beyond my control... things that I would rather not be wasting my precious breath on.
Happiness to me is making hard earned money and saving it in order have enough to move out of this state that holds me back from growing...

Well how have I been able to maintain my happiness if none of these things have been happening?

Simply on the basis that things could be so much worse than they are now! If you are having a bad day, week, month. Take a minute to think about just how worse things could be. What if you one of those people who are having a bad year? Lets be grateful people, because one man's trash is truly another man's treasure.

So how is your happiness defined?

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enjoyed the read. for me, happiness is defined as the ummm state where my problems no longer appear larger than life and my heart is completely filled with joy.

how do i arrive @ that exact point? LOVE.
May 19, 2008 at 10:16 AM
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