The reason why Women...
I am friends with enough men to know that they hate getting the "we need to talk" text because they always perceive that to mean that they have done something wrong, when in fact that is not always the case.
Men, I would like to let you in on a little secret... against the wishes of my female counterparts, but what the hey: Here is the reason why women send vague text messages.
Women have a specific reason behind every single teeny weeny, itsy bitsy mundane action that they do. Let's focus specifically on those vague and alarming text messages. The "we need to talk" text or the "wn2t txt" as I call it, is sent to get your mind racing on what you did, what you could have done, what you used to do and what you will do as a result of this upcoming conversation. Women like to send those texts when you are not around, when we have not spoken to you in a few days or ideally when we are on good terms. Sending the wn2t txt when you two are on bad terms will get an automatic ignore because you can already imagine what it will be about. While sending the wn2t txt when we are on good terms will conjure up fear and inquisition prompting an instant text or call back asking "what's wrong?" "what about?" or my favorite "what did I do now?"
So there is it. Did you catch it?
You know just as well as I know that we could just come flat out and say "We need to talk about your borrowing but never returning ass brother," but we would rather send the vague and ever so misleading wn2t txt to make you think, make you afraid and most of all, make you reply back because nothing is more irritating than sending a message to someone and their trifling asses don't have the nerve to reply back. So maybe to avoid all of this, try replying with a simple "k" to let us know you receive a text that we send, unless of course you want to get a wn2t txt the very next day.
Men, I would like to let you in on a little secret... against the wishes of my female counterparts, but what the hey: Here is the reason why women send vague text messages.
Women have a specific reason behind every single teeny weeny, itsy bitsy mundane action that they do. Let's focus specifically on those vague and alarming text messages. The "we need to talk" text or the "wn2t txt" as I call it, is sent to get your mind racing on what you did, what you could have done, what you used to do and what you will do as a result of this upcoming conversation. Women like to send those texts when you are not around, when we have not spoken to you in a few days or ideally when we are on good terms. Sending the wn2t txt when you two are on bad terms will get an automatic ignore because you can already imagine what it will be about. While sending the wn2t txt when we are on good terms will conjure up fear and inquisition prompting an instant text or call back asking "what's wrong?" "what about?" or my favorite "what did I do now?"
So there is it. Did you catch it?
You know just as well as I know that we could just come flat out and say "We need to talk about your borrowing but never returning ass brother," but we would rather send the vague and ever so misleading wn2t txt to make you think, make you afraid and most of all, make you reply back because nothing is more irritating than sending a message to someone and their trifling asses don't have the nerve to reply back. So maybe to avoid all of this, try replying with a simple "k" to let us know you receive a text that we send, unless of course you want to get a wn2t txt the very next day.
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