Swim lessons
Something that has really been bothering me lately are the inconsiderate actions of men.
I have come to realize that a man, when you first meet him, is really nonchalant. Down for whatever but not sweating nothing at the same time. That changes once you take the step into some kind of liking or once they realize that their like for you is not being reciprocated. Then they like you more, because you are a challenge, a mystery, something to look forward to.
That all changes for the worse once they get you, once they have successfully switched the tables on you and begin to play for to the left so that you can chase them. This is where we mess up ladies! This is where we should continue to play field, if we for some reason had stopped because of this one. This is when you need to show rather than tell that "although you have my attention, so does a few other guys so pull back if you want and I just might be unattainable once you decide to come back." If we fail to implicate this very important lesson, the jokes on us because men get afraid of commitment when its so easy, so near.
You're the dream until you're the reality and then it's on to another dream. Don't fall head first, the shit hurts. Dip ya' damn big toe in until you feel comfortable with the temperature but once it gets too hot, do cut the cold water on to enforce that you are in charge. And keep the bathroom door open while you're at it, to let him know that him is not the only man with a rubber ducky and that his can be deflated, removed and replaced. EASY.
I have come to realize that a man, when you first meet him, is really nonchalant. Down for whatever but not sweating nothing at the same time. That changes once you take the step into some kind of liking or once they realize that their like for you is not being reciprocated. Then they like you more, because you are a challenge, a mystery, something to look forward to.
That all changes for the worse once they get you, once they have successfully switched the tables on you and begin to play for to the left so that you can chase them. This is where we mess up ladies! This is where we should continue to play field, if we for some reason had stopped because of this one. This is when you need to show rather than tell that "although you have my attention, so does a few other guys so pull back if you want and I just might be unattainable once you decide to come back." If we fail to implicate this very important lesson, the jokes on us because men get afraid of commitment when its so easy, so near.You're the dream until you're the reality and then it's on to another dream. Don't fall head first, the shit hurts. Dip ya' damn big toe in until you feel comfortable with the temperature but once it gets too hot, do cut the cold water on to enforce that you are in charge. And keep the bathroom door open while you're at it, to let him know that him is not the only man with a rubber ducky and that his can be deflated, removed and replaced. EASY.
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